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A couple navigating anxious, intrusive doubts in their relationship
OCD

Relationship OCD (ROCD): How to Recognize It and What Helps

Your relationship is good. Your partner is kind. Communication is solid. Nothing is obviously “wrong” — and that’s exactly why the doubt can feel so…

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A conceptual image representing intrusive harm-related thoughts in OCD
OCD

What is Harm OCD? Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment

You pick up the kitchen knife to cut up some vegetables and a thought flashes through your mind: what if I hurt someone? Or you're driving and imagine…

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A person looking anxious and caught in their thoughts
Anxiety

Anxiety vs. OCD: What's the Difference and Why It Matters for Treatment

If you've ever wondered whether your worry, rumination, or repetitive thoughts are "just anxiety" or something more, you're not alone. OCD and anxiety…

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A person weighing a decision between two different paths
Career Coaching

Life Coach vs. Career Coach: Which One Do You Actually Need?

Life coaching and career coaching are terms that get used interchangeably all the time. Both work with questions of direction, purpose, and what you want…

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A conceptual illustration of chronic pain and the brain
Chronic Pain

Is Your Chronic Pain Neuroplastic? 7 Signs It Might Be

You’ve seen the doctors. You’ve had the scans. Maybe you’ve seen a physical therapist, maybe a pain specialist, maybe an orthopedist who reviewed everything.…

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Figuring out how to explain a resume gap doesn't have to be overwhelming.
Adults

How to Address Employment Gaps on Your Resume

If you’re staring at a gap on your resume and wondering how to explain it—or whether it will disqualify you from every job you apply to—you’re not alone.…

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You don't have to hit rock bottom to deserve support. For college students and young women struggling with food and body image.
Eating Disorder

You Don't Have to Be 'Sick Enough' to Deserve Eating Disorder Support

"Other people have it so much worse." "I'm still eating, so it can't be that serious." If you've ever told yourself you're not "sick enough" to deserve help with food or body image, that belief is often the eating disorder talking—and here's why it's a myth.

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A recent college graduate feeling unsure of their next step
Career Coaching

Why So Many College Graduates Feel Anxious and Stuck — And What Actually Helps

You did everything you were supposed to do. You went to class, passed your exams, walked across the stage. And now you're sitting with a diploma and…

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A conceptual image about food and a complicated relationship with eating
Eating Disorder

Do I have an eating disorder or disordered eating? How to tell

It’s not unusual to question your relationship with food at some point in life. Maybe you’ve noticed your eating habits changing. Maybe food feels more…

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A frustrated young person struggling to manage anger
Adults

Why Am I So Angry? Understanding and Managing Anger in Teens & Young Adults

Anger is a normal emotion—but when it starts to feel constant, overwhelming, or out of control, it can take a toll. For teens, college students, and young…

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A young adult struggling with low motivation and feeling stuck
Young Adults

Beyond Motivation: Understanding What’s Holding Your Young Adult Back

It’s difficult to watch your young adult child stall out. Maybe they’ve been talking about job ideas for months without sending out applications. Maybe…

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A parent and young adult having a supportive conversation
Young Adults

Helping Without Hovering: How Parents Can Talk About Career Coaching With Young Adults

One of the most common conversations we have with parents goes something like this: “I know my child is struggling, but I don’t know how to bring up the idea…

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When stress becomes the default setting, it’s hard to notice how much it’s costing you.
Stress

Chronic Stress & the Nervous System: How Therapy Can Help

Most people can handle short bursts of stress. It’s part of being human. But when that stress becomes constant — woven into daily life without a clear…

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A young adult sitting alone, feeling uncertain about the future
Parent Coaching

What Is Failure to Launch? Signs Your Young Adult May Be Struggling to Thrive

It’s not uncommon for young adults to hit roadblocks after high school or college. Some move back home after graduation, others pause before starting…

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A student feeling anxious while preparing for an exam
Anxiety

How to Manage Test Anxiety: Therapist-Recommended Strategies For Teens and Young Adults

If your stomach drops every time you walk into an exam room, or if you freeze up before a big test despite being fully prepared, you're not alone. Test…

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Managing OCD during the holidays isn’t about perfection—it’s about support and self-compassion.
OCD

10 Tips for Managing OCD During the Holidays

The holidays are often portrayed as a joyful, lighthearted time filled with togetherness and celebration. But for individuals living with…

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A person reflecting quietly while searching for purpose
Stress

What Is the Meaning of Life? Finding Purpose as a Teen or Young Adult

At some point, almost everyone asks the question: “What is the meaning of life?” If you’ve ever wrestled with this, you’re not alone. It’s one of the most…

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A person carrying the weight of ongoing stress
Stress

Acute vs Chronic Stress: How to Recognize the Difference and Protect Your Mental Health

Acute stress comes and goes; chronic stress lingers and wears you down. Learn the key differences, how to recognize each, and practical ways to cope.

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A person managing intrusive, repetitive OCD thoughts
OCD

Understanding OCD: Prevalence, Symptoms, and Effective Management

Introduction to OCD Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions. Often reduced to stereotypes or casual…

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A person feeling the mental and physical effects of stress
Stress

What is Stress? Understanding Its Impact on Your Mental and Physical Health

Introduction Consider these scenarios: a young woman stepping into a new managerial role in her job, a college student balancing a full course load with a…

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A symbolic tug-of-war representing the struggle with anxiety
Anxiety

Tug of War with Monsters - Understanding the Inevitability of Being Anxious

Have you ever felt that knot in your stomach or that racing heartbeat when faced with a challenging situation? Well, you're not alone! While you may believe…

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Healthy boundaries

Learning to Say No: Strategies for Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships

Introduction: Setting boundaries in relationships is essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. In this post, we'll explore strategies for…

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Mindfulness

5 Easy Ways to be More Present in Your Life

The world we live is not designed to help us to be present. Whether it’s notifications from your email, text messages, or social media, the TV in the other…

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How to Find the Right Therapist For You

Deciding that you want to see a therapist can be difficult. Everyone has their own reasons that ultimately convince them that they need help, but whatever…

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The story of the two monks and the woman

A short story: Two monks are walking along a path as they approach the bank of a swiftly moving river. As they get closer, they see a woman on the riverbank…

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Managing Anxiety in a Pandemic

COVID-19 is here, and our lives as we’ve known them have been changed indefinitely. This is an unprecedented set of circumstances that triggers all of our…

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Mindfulness

Why Mindfulness?

As much as we’d like to believe otherwise, we can’t control our thoughts and emotions. Despite this fact, we often identify with the emotions or thoughts…

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"Entering the Forest" - The beginnings of self-work

Everyone arrives at the beginnings of self-work in different ways. Some may embark by choice, while others may feel like it is not their choice at all.…

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